Start with a piece that needs no size, then pick her gold, the stone and when it arrives
Give her something that needs no size. Earrings, a pendant set or a necklace suit her without a measurement, and they were most of what sold here, flower earrings first. Choose 14K gold in the color she already wears, and hold the ring until you know her size. A piece in stock usually leaves us within 2 to 5 business days, so put the gift's date on the live chat if it must arrive by then.
No size needed: gifts for her when you don't know her size
Start with earrings or something that hangs on a chain. Neither asks for her size. Earrings need only pierced ears. A pendant set comes on its own chain, as most necklaces do, and the usual length is 18 inches, which rests at the collarbone. Most pendants sold alone don't say a chain comes with them, so add one or ask us. A bracelet asks for her wrist, and 7 inches is the length we list most.
Earrings: diamond flower earrings and studs for her
Flower earrings are the safe pick. Small diamonds set like petals sit flat on the lobe, and flower pairs were about a third of everything bought here. The pair bought most is 10K gold. Each of its flowers is 5 mm across, and the same flower comes a size up in 14K. A small stud is the other easy choice for her first diamonds. Match the gold to what she wears. Most pairs come in yellow and white gold, and some in rose too. Few listings say what back a pair has, so ask us before you pay.
Her ring size: buying a ring as a gift for her
Find her size before you buy a ring. Borrow one she wears on the same finger, then check it against the printable sizer in our ring size chart. Most rings here come in every size from 5 to 8, halves included. Two tennis rings in rose gold adjust to fit, so they need no size at all. If it is a proposal, start with the lab-grown marquise, the ring bought most here. A ring we resize for her can't come back, so be sure first.
Gold and stones: 14K gold, diamonds, lab-grown or natural
Take 14K gold for a piece she will wear every day. Most pieces here are made in it, and it holds up to wear better than softer 18K. Most pieces carry diamonds. Every diamond listing names where its diamonds came from, natural on 75 and lab-grown on 59. A lab-grown diamond is real diamond, grown above ground instead of mined. If she likes color, look at the pink and blue sapphires.
Delivery and returns: when a gift for her arrives
If the piece is in stock, it usually leaves us within 2 to 5 business days. A piece we make for your order can take two to three weeks before it ships. Before you order for a birthday or a holiday, give the gift's date on the live chat, text the gift's date to 212-872-9692 from 10 AM ET, or add a note at checkout. Every package ships tracked. The fourteen days to return a gift start at delivery, not on the day she opens it, so don't order far ahead if it might go back.